the subjectivity of mindsets

To people's consternation - is letting go of things, people, relationships and feelings. There can be 2 plausible reasons holding this argument, the first can be that it's been there for too long and you can't let go of a habit, the other one can be that you just newly found it so you don't wanna leave it without experiencing it. In my estimation, both of these are real but toxic reasons. The feeling of letting go sometimes haunts us so bad that we actually behave in ways which are unintentional but unjustified. Living your emotions, moments with everyone and feeling them is more important than knowing that you will eventually have to let go of each of them. Now this does not mean that you start friendships with the mindset of having to leave, because some of them are going to demolish this stereotype. 

Being accepting towards the idea of leaving things behind also does not mean that you should not even try to hold them together. You should be a dandelion, holding on till you can but eventually letting the wind take the little whitey things wherever they belong and watching them bloom even without you. The point is to celebrate what you have and be mature enough to let other people now have the same thing.  

Feel what is relevant and applicable to different situations because there's no single theorem that applies to all of it.

"Don't lose yourself while trying to put your life together." It is often extremely toilsome to not over-analyse every single person or feeling in life, but very easy to lose ourselves and our self- image in that process. 

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